getcha motor running

in 5 days ill be married. in 10 ill be in washington. in about 20 ill be living in San Diego. i still havent packed yet, not like ive had a chance. i have loads of laundry to do, and its not all mine. i still havent chose my song for the first dance for my wedding. jon wants us to have a baby right away. i really dont think it would be fair to anyone. i told him we should wait till we come back to chicago. too much pressure. ugh.